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Understand Behavior

Describe What You See

The way we describe behavior affects how well we can understand it.

Key Idea

Describe behavior so clearly that another adult could recognize it without needing to know what you think the student intended.

What This Can Look Like

Instead of: “He was disrespectful.” Try: “He said ‘no,’ pushed the worksheet away, and put his head on the desk.” Instead of: “She wanted attention.” Try: “She called the adult’s name six times while the adult was speaking with another student.”

✓Try This

  • •Ask yourself: Could a camera record what I just wrote? If yes, it is probably observable. Useful descriptions include: - what the student said - what the student did - what happened immediately before - what happened immediately afterward

Keep in Mind

Words such as defiant, manipulative, attention-seeking, lazy, and naughty are interpretations, not descriptions. Observable language reduces assumptions and helps teams look for patterns more accurately.

Related Learning

The ABCs of Behavior

When behavior feels confusing, start with what you can actually observe. ABC stands for Antecedent, Behavior, and Consequence. It is a simple way to organize what happened around an event.

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